Saturday, February 16, 2008

"Marriage" Tag

My cousin, Ruby, tagged me it. To be completed about Jeff•

What is his name? Randy Jeff Young, named after his dad. So all three generations have RJ initials: Randy Jay, Randy Jeff, Ryan Jeff

How long have you been together? 7 years, 1 week, 1 day

How long did you date? started dating in July. Serious dating first week school started (never missed a day after that), engaged unofficially in October, officially asked me at Sly Park back home day after Thanksgiving, married February 9.

How old is he? 29

Who said I love you first? Jeff, I totally made him say it first!

Who is taller? Jeff, it's hard to not be taller than 5' 2''.

Who sings better? I sing a lot better than Jeff but he has a really good ear for music in general.

Who is smarter? I'm a much better student and very booksmart, but Jeff's CRAZY SMART with anything tech and he's all about reading up and learning things.

Whose temper is worse? hmmm tought one. Neigher of us really have a temper so things go pretty smooth and we let things blow off.

Who does the laundry? I do.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? Totally depends where the door is. Before we moved I was on the right. Now the door is closer to the left so that's where I am. Jeff puts me there so the kids will get to me first. haha

Who pays the bills? I usually do, Jeff helps remind me.

Who mows the lawn? We take turns.

Who does the dishes? I do, even though Jeff swears that I don't. Not that he thinks that he does them, just that he thinks NO ONE does them. I really hate the dishes.

Who cooks dinner? I do, but Jeff's the grilling king. It's hard going out for steak anymore when I know Jeff's are just as good or better. He has this awesome technique of searing them on the grill and finishing them off in the oven.

Who drives when you are together? Jeff. I'm not a very good driver. I've never been in an accident, I just have no sense of direction. We got me a navigation system and I can still get lost!

Who is more stubborn? JEFF!

Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? I am because I hate all the contention. When Ciara and I were little I was always the first (even when it wasn't true) so we could start playing together again.

Who kissed who first? He kissed me on the lawn of the chapel by the Provo Temple. Earlier that night while driving, he leaned in to change the radio station and I MAJOR JERKED AWAY cause I thought he was going to kiss me. Not that I didn't want him to, I was just really wired. I was so embarrassed.

Who proposed? He did.

Who is more sensitive? OH MY GOSH, can I say that I cry when watching Charlott's Web and those IHC commericals about having a baby blah blah blah. I cried when we sold our WRX and I'm betting a few tears will come when we sell our first home *sniff sniff* I am such a sop. You look at me wrong and I'm in tears, and then I'm apologizing and saying it's my fault. haha For the record, I have never seen Jeff cry. I always bug him by asking if he'll cry when I die. Aren't I great? =)

Who has more friends? I do, but that's cause I count you as a friend 3 minutes after I meet you.

Who wears the pants in the family? Jeff, but he tries to make me wear them once in a while.

Now I tag Stacy!

1 comment:

Davis Smith said...

That was so much fun to read! I learned a lot about you two! :) Now I REALLY want Jeff to come over and make us a yummy bbq dinner (I'll provide it all and let him do all the work). How can I get him to do that for me?

I love how you are such a peacemaker and cry over anything. It reminds me of my younger sister! (She would totally takes the blame for anything to make things better.)